Today I am not even at home. I am at camp (which you shall
see noted in the first few items on my list…and I am really hoping that
Christine remembers to link me up during the hop!). And though I know you will
all be dying to see what fun, thoughtful, insightful and witty things I will
have to say about your posts, all that will have to wait until I get home on
Sunday night.
I know this has probably brought your blog-hop to a grinding
halt, but please don’t let it be so. Try to carry on until I can join you; I
know it will be difficult, but try to manage. Do it for the sake of the children,
if nothing else.
So…without further delay, I give you what you’ve all been
waiting for:
1. am thankful that it SHOULD
not be too hot this week-end for Family Camp with our church. In the past we
have stayed in the non-air conditioned cabins as well as the air-conditioned
lodge. This year (due to my increasing thriftiness…tent-camping was the
cheapest option) we are tent camping…always dicey in September in Indiana.
2. I am thankful for the opportunity to get away with my family
and with our church. We haven’t gone for the past 3 years for various and sundry
reasons, so we’ve been looking forward to this trip for months.
3. I am thankful that my husband does not have to work on
Saturday; for a few hours on Thursday, he was going to have to work on Saturday
and miss half the camp. Because not only was he going to have to work; he was
going to have to be at work about an hour away, beginning at 5 on Saturday
morning…so clearly not the kind of situation in which he could go down to camp
(which, of course, was the opposite direction of work) on Friday night and then
get up early on Saturday to go in. So then we started praying that he wouldn’t
have to work, letting God work out the details. By Thursday evening, Mr. Always
Random got word that the equipment needed for the work wasn’t functioning and that
they were going to delay Saturday’s scheduled work until Monday.
4. I am still thankful for Salted Caramel Pretzel Bark. I made some to take
to camp in order to share it with my church family on Saturday night; I’m not
entirely sure that it will last that long. It’s like crack (and no, I have no
idea what crack is like so please don’t ask; this may actually be more
addicting than crack, if you really must know…)
5. I am thankful for a nice, easy school-week. I do so enjoy
homeschooling the PBA, but let’s be honest…homeschooling, as in any other
school, has some weeks which are simply rougher than others. But this one was
smooth as silk. And, as the 12yo was pointing out to his brother, “We’re 1/6th
of the way through the school year!” And by golly he’s right…6 weeks down
already. And only the beginning of September. Nice!
6. I’m thankful for those moments when I have time to write.
And I’m thankful to know when I can put together a halfway decent post, vs when
I’d simply be half-assing it (sorry for the language…but it’s the only word
that truly makes the point) and you, my loyal readership, deserve more than
that. I’d rather not post anything than post crap (I’m such a potty-mouth). So
there. I said it. Consider yourself notified. So yes what that means is that
even if you think what I am posting is junk, I, apparently, think it is pretty
good stuff.
7. I am thankful that one night this week, I made something for
dinner which I have made previously and for some reason it wasn’t all that
terrific. I’m certain it wasn’t operator error. Why do I think that? Because this
was actually the second time I made it and it came out exactly the same way; I
remembered as soon as I saw it the second time. Why didn’t I throw away the
recipe after the first fail? I have no idea…perhaps I thought it was operator
error, which I am thankful to announce, it was NOT. I guess that’s one thing of
thankful…realizing that sometimes a cooking fail actually has to do with a
crappy recipe and not my lacking culinary skills. I have since thrown the
recipe away. At least I think I did.
8. And now here’s the thankfulness item I actually set out to
include in my ramblings about the meal preparation: I am thankful that even
when a recipe doesn’t really turn out as I had envisioned and when my attempt
to fix it still doesn’t render it great (it is edible, but not terrific), I am
thankful that no one in my household complains. They put their heads down and
they shovel it in. In addition, they keep their comments to themselves.
9. I am thankful for my chiropractor…while my back is still
tender and a little bit out of sorts, I am thankful that he can always accommodate
me and doesn’t make fun of me too much when I throw out my back from too much sitting.
10. I am thankful for the optimism of my 12yo who, just this
week, has repeatedly shown himself to be a “glass-half-full” kind of kid. I won’t
give every example…just the one that made me giggle and scratch my head (not
regarding anything he did…trust me, you’ll understand momentarily). This is a
longish story, so settle in.
For the past 8+ years, we have lived next to a somewhat-interesting
couple. We believe they are somewhere in their 60’s and both work full-time; we
rarely, if ever, see them, and even if we do see them, we exchange a wave and a
“Hello!” but that’s the extent of it. However, we must seem somewhat trust-worthy,
as whenever they leave town for more than a day or two, they entrust their
house to us.
And when I say this, I need for you to understand that it is
not a conversation that happens (usually), but we simply find an envelope in
our mailbox with our names printed on the front; inside the envelope is their trip
itinerary as well as a key to their house. They have never once asked us if a)
we would mind watching the house, or b) if we will even be home to watch the
house. I am waiting (because you know at some point it will probably happen)
that we will be gone the entire time they are gone and no one has known that
they were gone at all.
This particular time, the wife came over last week and
actually knocked on the door; shock of the world! When I answered, she handed
me an envelope and said, “Here’s the information about where we’ll be.” And then
she walked away. I closed the door, and then rolled my eyes. The PBA were
standing there with me. The 10yo asked, “So…did she even ASK?”
Me: No. No she did not. Don’t we think that’s kind of rude?
Should we assume things like that, or should we ask someone to watch our house
for us?
10yo: Oh we should ask…that does seem a little rude! (my little Eddie Haskell)
12yo: Well, at least they think highly enough of us to have
us watch their house! That’s nice!
Yes, Mr. Glass-Half-Full…you are right. Thank you for
re-framing that for me.
But I’m not finished with the story yet. Once they returned
home from the trip, the husband came over to fetch the key and tell me about
the trip (I wasn’t asking and already had my jammies on…awkward…to be fair it was the late hour of 8:30pm!); he had two
gifts wrapped in tissue paper with him. He thanked us for keeping an eye on the
place (they do always thank us, so there is that…), and he handed me the gifts.
And then I thanked him and we closed the door. Again, the
PBA were right there. We tore open Gift #1. It was a set of three
birthday-themed cookie cutters. Now, it is nowhere close to any of our
birthdays, but we thought it was a seemingly-ok gift. We assumed that the
second gift might be…cookie dough?
Nope, it was a large bottle of bubbles.
Yes, bubbles. The kind you play with outside and blow
through a small plastic wand. Apparently my 10 & 12yo boys look like they
would still like to play with bubbles.
I may have rolled
my eyes.
But without missing a beat, Mr. Glass-Half-Full said, “Well,
those will really come in handy when we have some foster kids here!”
Yes, buddy you are exactly right…thank you, once again, for
re-framing the situation for me. So thankful for that boy!
Have a fabulous day!
I can relate to a recipe that finally tuned out well when it couldn't before!! Thanks for sharing this list!
ReplyDeleteYour son is a sweetheart and we should all follow his lead. Crazy neighbors! I MUST try that bark though!!!
ReplyDeleteYes you really MUST try it. You'll never be the same again... :)
Delete1. I don't camp. You have fun in that tent, but know that I would only camp if I were some kind of refugee, and even then, I'm thinking probably not.
ReplyDelete4. I've made your salted caramel pretzel bark twice since you posted the recipe. If that is what crack is like, then I understand the addiction.
6. You and me both!
8. Lucky. I would hear about it from my family, not only that night at dinner, but also for years and years to come.
Oh I bet if you were a refugee you wouldn't even HAVE a tent to sleep in...so there is that. ;) It only rained a couple times on us and we only had two small leaks. Unfortunately one was on my head.
DeleteGlad you like the SCPB...I knew it couldn't just be me.
Sorry about your family commenting...the only way mine is allowed to comment is if I say something about it first. And even then, it is dicey for them. I run a tight ship.
You tell her! And she claims to be my BFF. :)
ReplyDeleteShe did at least ask me to link her post, instead of just putting an envelope in my mailbox. :)
Yeah, if I ever made a horrible dinner, the kids would complain. Unless I complained first. Then they'd go easier on me.
ReplyDeleteThose neighbors of yours a piece of work! Now you are going to have to point them out to me. Can we put envelopes in their mailbox? Not to watch your house, of course, but something funny. (I already know your answer. You're too nice. :) It would be funny, though.)
I've always liked that 12yo. :)
of course, the next time the neighbors leave, you might consider it an opportunity for 'Time to learn to live along for the children (and their little friends)' With adult supervision, of course*
Deleteno, huh?
lol
*you could watch the house from across the street..really quite safe!
You're right, Christine...I just can't to something mean. If nothing else, their bahavior is fodder for the blog. And who doesn't want good fodder for the blog?
DeleteNext time they leave you the key, go in and rearrange their furniture.
DeleteOh hon....I actually teared up there at the end... your son thinking of the foster kids to come. What a great kiddo!
ReplyDeleteThis is a great list....and I can't wait for you to get back from Family Camp!
Well, thanks...he is a pretty terrific kiddo. And yes, thinking of the fister kiddos who aren't even here yet. Sweet boy...if only he would consider the people who actually live in his house NOW (but I think that's just 12yo boy...this too shall pass.)
DeleteYour son will be a great foster-brother!
ReplyDeleteThanks...I think so too. He and the 10yo fight something awful sometimes but they can also be very sweet and tender toward one another. Don't tell them I said that otherwise it will come to a grinding halt! :)
DeleteThat's so funny! Definitely weird neighbors you have there ;-)
ReplyDeleteGlad you could spend a great weekend as a family.
Oh, and I agree, a chiropractor is a blessing. I need to see mine again and hope to get a prescription for massages. Somehow, running makes my back tense up..
Have a wonderful week!
Yes the week-end was nice. It is something of a mis-nomer, as it isn't a whole lot of "family time" but it is "church family time"...somewhat different. There were 42 middle school students there this week-end so needless to say the kids had little need for us! But we did have some time with them, and time with church family so all in all it was a lovely week-end.
DeleteI may need to visit my chiro again soon...go figure that sitting on benches without backs and sleeping on air mattresses aren't as good for a tender back as one might think... :)
Camp and those pretzels sound wonderful. And your son sounds like his parents must have done something very right. :)
ReplyDeleteYes, you really must try the pretzels...you'll never be the same. :)
DeleteIt's not us but the grace of God, my friend...we are just fortunate enough to be his parents. :)
Well, if Christine would ever make time for me, I might be able to hook her up with some SCPB...;) And she claims to be MY BFF...
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